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My
name is Richard Ducey. Im from Center Barnstead, New Hampshire.
Im 54 years old, married and have five children.
They
sent for a chest x-ray and at that point realized that I had probably
had lung cancer for six to eight years. At the time I was diagnosed,
I was diagnosed as stage 3B and at that point they said that even
with surgery, chemo and radiation, I probably was looking at six
months to a year on the outside. Its been four years and four
months and Im in treatment again, but Im still hanging
on and in the interim its, ah, life has been pretty good.
Its
been a challenge, up and down. The treatments can be rough. The
radiation seemed to have more of a negative effect on me than any
other part of it, but that was a one-time thing and so was the surgery,
so now the only way to treat it, if it flares up again, is chemo.
For
such a bad situation, its been a wonderful experience. The
quality of the people that are there exceeds anything that Ive
ever seen in any type of medical community before. Its like
a big family. This time I was diagnosed right before Christmas and
both my doctor, the scheduling person and the nurses stayed on New
Years Eve for my first treatment until seven oclock
at night. I know these folks all have families, but nobody said
a word other than being concerned about my being comfortable and
getting through the treatment. Its the most wonderful group
of people Ive ever met.
My
wife goes in with me whenever I go in for the visits with the doctor.
My mother comes up and my wife comes during the treatments and theyve
been made to feel a part of it and thats been very
its
made it a lot easier for me to go through the process having the
support there of my family. Theres never been any type of
problem. Theyve all
everybody in there has just been
very positive and very helpful.
Im
a veteran, so Ive been in and out of the Veterans Administration
system and so a lot of my friends tend to be veterans, and because
of exposure to Agent Orange, a lot of my friends in their early
50s also have cancer, and what Ive said to them is, "There
is no comparison between treatment in a VA facility and treatment
at New Hampshire Oncology."
I
cant say enough how positive an experience it has been, given
how devastating emotionally going through terminal cancer can be.
Ive always been made to feel very special. Ive always
been treated with courtesy and respect. And, again, the medical
staff has a very positive outlook. You feel like youre making
friends, rather than seeing doctors and nurses.
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